I took a walk and shared a few of my thoughts on why it is important to be grateful.
All My Love,
Zach
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ALLOW OTHERS THEIR PATH…
UncategorizedThoughts I wanted to share on allowing others to walk their path, no matter how different their path may be to yours.
All My Love,
Zach
OUR SEXUALITY OBSESSION…
UncategorizedA video I watched tonight inspired within me to talk about this topic and I wanted to share it with anyone who it calls to 🙂 It is a fun topic and I hope you enjoy!
All My Love
Zach IAM
Why Should I Meditate?
UncategorizedAnswering some questions on why it is important to meditate, and how to meditate. Hope you enjoy!
All My Love,
Zach IAM
EMBODYING THE GODDESS…
UncategorizedI want to start this post by saying that many of you may not agree with what I am about to write, but this is something that I feel is necessary.
Just now, I watched a music video…Robin Thicke’s “Blurred Lines.” Then I watched Justin Timberlake’s video, “Tunnel Vision.” These videos have taken quite a lot of heat for having topless women in them, which I understand. Robin Thicke’s video of women blatantly prancing around topless seems to depreciate women. However, as I watched Justin Timberlake’s video I found something else emanating from that video and that is what I would like to write about tonight…
In this new age of the feminine energies rising up, balancing the masculine, it is still apparent that many women are stuck in their past ways of mental conditioning. They still take offense to the fact that women are being “sexualized” on TV and videos such as the ones I’ve mentioned. Yes, this is still the cases in some instances. Yet, when David Beckham is naked with very little underwear on, women have no complaints. Likewise, when “True Blood” male characters are seen completely nude, full frontal nudity, women are ecstatic to have seen such a feat.
I myself, am not a women in this incarnation. I am a man, with predominantly masculine energies. I have been female incarnations in past lives, but here, now, I embody a more masculine essence. This post is not an attack, but something to cultivate questioning…
My dear sisters, why do you take offense to your form? Why is it offensive, and collectively offensive, to show the female form in all of its glory to the world? I will hear many say that it is because men will abuse that form and not appreciate it. That sexualizing women is inappropriate and causes men to look at women as objects. That sexualizing women leads to rape and other horrendous acts perpetuated by men. All of these answers have a strong validity to them and I agree. But does not this “feminist” attitude of almost being ashamed of displaying the perfection that is the Goddess incarnate, contradict the ability to establish the Goddess fully within your being and consciousness?
I would like to do an exercise with my sisters for just a minute. As soon as you read this please do this visualization and then comment to let me know what you experienced…
Close your eyes. I want you to imagine that you are the Goddess, the embodiment of Love, sensuality, ecstasy, wisdom, healing, the totality of all life, creation. Imagine that you fully embody all of these characteristics and walk. Walk amongst a garden of flowers, the pickles of grass beneath your feet, the smell of dew in the morning air, and FEEL what your body feels like. Experience the sensations in your body. The grounded nature of your feet in contact with Mother Earth, honoring all of her creative and nurturing abilities that are within you. Feeling the sacred sensuality that Aphrodite has bestowed within your deepest heart. The wisdom of all the healers that have come before you, embedded within your cells. Now touch your skin with that presence. Glide your fingertips against your skin feeling the pulsing vibrations of Life. How do you feel? Do you feel that you are the life-giving energy to the masculine. Do you feel that your clothing enhances your beauty or restricts the glory emanating from each cell of your body. Are you ashamed of the beauty that you possess or are you freely open, fully open?
You see my sisters, this is who you are. This is why you chose as a feminine form, with a feminine essence, to come forth into this earth experience. The Goddess honors her Self. She is open fully to giving her Love, her nurturing, her sensuality, because she realizes that she is the life-giving force behind all creation. From her comes the inspiration that the masculine seeks. From her comes the nourishment of Truth. From her comes the ecstasy that no masculine can ever comprehend, yet feels fully.
James Brown was wrong when he said it is a man’s world. This is fully, and has always been, a women’s world. My sisters, I am not saying to go forth in public fully nude and flaunt your body. What I do say though is that you have come forth to embody the Goddess, and the Goddess is not ashamed of her form. She celebrates her beauty, she knows that her outward form is a representation of within. She walks with an openness honoring her brothers and sisters, her children, nourishing them with her life-giving Love in every aspect of life. She moves with a grace and sensuality that can only be recognized as Divinity incarnate. The masculine bows to her and she demands that her God rise up to meet her glory. The Goddess demands of her God, nothing other than respect and Presence.
However, my dear sisters if you do not respect yourselves, and your forms, nor respect your sisters who are expressing their aspects of the Goddess, the majority will continue to believe that it is a man’s world.
Do I agree with women being naked on music videos? In most cases, no. Because women are being demeaned, they are looked at as objects rather than Goddesses. However, as I watch Justin Timberlake’s video I do agree with it. These women are celebrating their sensuality. They are embracing their Goddess as best they know how and it moves across the screen. Hiding the feminine form is just as bad as hiding the masculine form. We hide behind our clothing just as we hide behind our hearts.
Am I suggesting we all become nudists, no. Am I suggesting that we look deeper within ourselves and let our walls be broken down, yes. Am I suggesting that the female form receive more praise for its beauty, no matter what shape, color, and size it is, yes. Am I suggesting that in order to break down thousands of years of collective pain-bodies we must celebrate who we are internally and let that shine forth externally, you bet ya! Am I suggesting that my sisters embody their Goddess fully and let that shine forth, no matter if they have clothing on or off, 100% yes! Am I suggesting that as women demand that their masculine counterpoint embody his God, it will collectively cause men to rise up to meet them, Uh huh!! And am I suggesting that all women are the most beauty-full embodiment of the Goddess and they should remember that, of course!
If the media shows your sister, in her naked form, celebrate that, don’t sexualize it. Don’t succumb to the media’s idea that being naked means being sexual. Being naked is an open expression of the inner Goddess. You don’t have to wear clothing to be respected, you have to embody your inner Truth and therefore DEMAND respect through your essence. Celebrate who you are my sisters! Celebrate your inner Goddess, bring her forth, so that whether you are wearing a business suit or completely nude, others bow to your glory. You are truly Divine, you can be nothing else. And support each of your sisters celebrating their Goddess as well. I know that I always will.
All My Love,
Zach IAM
YOUR CAPACITY TO LOVE…
UncategorizedAs human beings we have the unlimited capacity to Love. In our deepest understanding, the Essence of our being is truly Love. There is no darkness, there is no sin, there is no evil, those are ideas that have been propagated by those who did not understand Who-We-Are. We are the Infinite Light of the world, the untouched perfection of Divinity. You have the choice. The choice to remember that you are the embodiment of the Divine Principle and express Love, to embody your highest knowing in each moment…or the choice to forget Who-You-Are, to believe that you are a sinner, that humans are inherently evil, and that you are unworthy. Our capacity to Love is far deeper than our ability to fear, because innately we are Love. Give your Essence to the animals, the plants, your brothers and sisters, to Gaia…it is needed, YOU are needed!!!
Zach IAM
A POEM OF TRUTH…
UncategorizedAre you here for Love or are here for fear?
For those with hearts open, let them hear.
You have come for laughter, yet also for pain,
You have forgotten this Truth, so remember again.
This journey called Life will throw you ’round,
Do not get scared by the falls, for that is where You will be found.
Though the ups may seem joyous and the downfalls too hard,
By remembering your Core, you will not drift afar.
You see my dear child, you have come for a ride,
Though at times you will want off, stay strong and hold tight.
Because as you remember, you are the creator of it all,
No longer will the heights hamper your fall.
You will jump from great peaks, knowing that all will be well.
For there you will remember that you always lept, never fell.
From this space of mind, you sing the joys of the heart,
You were never a victim, but a joyous Creator from the start.
No words will convey the Truth only you can know from life,
It is not a race to the finish, but a game enjoyed through strife.
You are the spark of the Divine, the Light of the Source,
You are needed more than ever, to return to your course.
The world is not set up, for goodness and bad,
It is here for creation, to manifest what is yet to be had.
For in your understanding of Truth, and your breathing into the Flame,
God may now experience Itself, and all be returned to It’s name.
No wars are needed, nor a fight over perspective,
The Universe exists unto itself, and ALL should be respected.
The great Masters have taught, that all Beings are Divine,
That all beings are united, across all space and time.
But this you must remember, so that we can experience true Love,
All things are below, as they are up above.
For this great Truth will span all intellectual thought,
It shall be felt in the heart, in the ego it is not.
Please remember these words, my dear brethren of the Light,
For all of us shall remember, that within holds this sight.
All My Love,
Zach IAM
LOVE THEM ANYWAYS…
UncategorizedYou see, your Love is a gift. Not only is it a gift, but it is the very Essence of your Being. You are the embodiment of Love. When you choose to give Love, you choose to enter into union with the highest aspect of your Self. When you choose to give Love, you choose to help others see that within themselves. When you choose to BE Love, you are now the most power-full force in the universe.
There are times in life when it seems so incredibly difficult to give Love. It seems so far away to truly feel Love for somebody who has hurt us, or hurt another. It seems so difficult to give Love when we feel that life is draining us of our energy. It seems so difficult to BE Love, when all we can think about is getting the bills paid, returning our bodies to health, healing past relationships with family, friends, or lovers.
In those difficult times, we must remember who we are. No matter how difficult it may be to rise to the occassion, and accept where we are, we must go deeper below the surface of life. We must look within our hearts, we must search the depths of our souls, looking below all the insignificant turmoils of life, and realize how beauty-full we are.
We must remind ourselves that the Looker behind our eyes is not simply our brain, It is deeper. We must remind ourselves that the Taster beneath our tongue is not simply our brain, It is deeper. We must remind ourselves that the Feeler below our skin is not simply our nerves, It is deeper. The Experiencer that we are is not our body, It is much deeper.
In our truest nature, we are Love. We are the embodiment of Infinite Presence and Love. We are extensions of the One True Love. We are the expression of Divine Principle and Love. We are Love.
In knowing this, there is no longer need for judgement. We now understand that no matter how hurtful somebody’s words or actions can be, in their deepest heart, they are Love. When your boss calls you incompetent, go deep within your Self and Love them ayways. When your friend tells you that you are worthless, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways. When your parent calls you stupid, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways. When your foe strikes you with his fist, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways. When your lover breaks your heart, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways.
From that place of Love, you now know that all the strength in the world lies within You. From that place of understanding, all the forces in the Universe come to your aid and guide you. From that place of Peace, you can then know which path to take to live the Life you have set forth for yourself.
To Love, does not mean to accept abuse. It does not mean trying to fix somebody you think is broken. It does not mean accepting hurtful words and actions because you like who they use to be. It does not mean allowing others to treat you disrespectfully and laughing it off. To Love, means that no matter what anybody says or does to you that you can Love them anyways, and maintain an enduring Presence. It means that no matter what they say or do, you are now conscious of your response towards them. You no longer REACT in anger, but RESPOND in compassion. It means to give them your Love while allowing them to walk their own path. It means walking with an open heart and knowing who You are in each moment. It means to walk with the Infinite in each moment, and knowing fully that you are protected. To Love means to be You.
As You give your Love, the Universe responds with giving You Love…that is my promise! Spirit does not want you to suffer, but it will not ease your suffering without your consent. You are here to remember who You are. You are here to experience the full spectrum of human emotion and life experiences. You chose as an extension of the Divine to step forth into your physical body to experience ALL that life had to offer. And You knew that there would come a time when You would remember who You really are…and that time has come. Remember…search within the depths of your heart…breathe within the fire of your soul…You are Love! May you remember this all of your days!
All My Love,
Zach IAM
THERE IS A FORCE…
UncategorizedThere is a force in this world, in this Universe, in this thing we call Life, that is far more power-full than we realize.
This has been a topic I have been truly meditating on for the last week and I realized today that I should write about what wants to come through me.
You see, this physical world that we seem to experience is a beauty-full gift. These vessels that carry us through time and space are a beauty-full gift. Our ability to experience all that this reality has to offer is a beauty-full gift. But many of us have lost sight of that, have we not? We have forgotten who we are. We have forgotten the all-encompassing beauty that surrounds us, that is within us, at all times.
Most human beings move through life as if it is a means to an end. “If I act good and righteously now, then when I die I can go to heaven,” they think. Is this not more true than we realize? Many of us who call ourselves “spiritual” may still feel that way. “I want to go home!” we cry. “This pain from this lover is too much to bare!…My body vessel is too sick for me to carry on!…I feel so alone I want to be with my true family!…” Do we not find ourselves doing this at times?
We must remember, and remind ourselves constantly, that each of us CHOSE to be here at this time and space. We made a conscious CHOICE from a Higher Perspective, from Non-Physical, to come forth into these beauty-full vessels and experience, and CREATE, all that this physical experience had to offer. However, we move through life as if life is just happening to us. We break up with a partner, we get sick, we lose our job, all the while blaming some “God” we don’t understand, or saying that the world is just unfair.
We rarely take the perspective of our Higher understanding. We rarely look through the eyes of our True Self, of our Divine Self, and consciously accept the fact that we create every experience we have. We rarely accept the fact that there is a force so incredibly potent that it not only directs all of Life, but is all of Life. And almost never do we realize that that very force is moving through, and within, us by virtue of the thoughts we hold.
An example of forces if I may…
Right now, in this very moment, we are floating on a rock in the middle of nowhere. For a minute imagine you are the sun looking at earth. Earth is literally a rock floating in space, there is nothing holding it there other than an unknown force, right? Do you understand that force? Do you understand how the earth and all the other planets are not falling out of orbit around the sun, other than this unknown force? I sure as heck don’t!
Another example…
Right now, in this very moment, an unknown force is holding your vessel in contact with the ground. Again, if you look at the earth from the sun’s perspective, your body could be on the bottom side of the earth right now, yet there is a force that is holding your body from just falling out into the nothingness of space. What is that force? Obviously we call it gravity, but what does that mean? You literally are upside down right now from the perspective of the sun and yet you remain grounded to the earth.
These forces are far more power-full than simply giving them the title of “gravity” and whatever else force is holding earth in orbit. Without these forces that govern your very life you would not be able to experience the beauty of this world. You do not fully understand these forces yet you abide by them do you not? Similar to these forces are the power-full forces of your thoughts. Many of you may have heard of the Law of Attraction, but the term I heard and like to call it is the Law of Expression.
The Law of Expression is the universal law that states that the Divine Principle, God, is experiencing life through you and expressing itself through you in the form of your thoughts, words, actions, and therefore manifestations. It created Itself in the form of you so that it could experience Itself again and again through fresh experiences and new eyes. Your eternal soul IS that aspect of yourself that is the True You, your Higher Self, and is your God Self. The Divine Mind, does not care which experiences you have because It knows that all is well. Divine Mind does not question if there are dark forces because it knows that no plethora of darkness and ever impede on the Light. When a match is lit, it alights a dark room every time.
So if Divine Mind does not care which experiences you have, it is all really up to you to bring new life into the world. Every time you give rise to a new fresh desire, a new fresh wanting, Divine Mind says, “Yes! I like this idea and I want to experience through your eyes my beauty-full child!” And so as you hold true to that thought Divine Mind begins to align all of your experiences so that It can experience that through you!
The problem is is that few of us truly believe this force exists. The force that governs worlds, and directs all things is within you for you to use at your disposal. Just like gravity, you may not fully understand it, but nonetheless your life is governed by it and you abide by this Law whether you are conscious of it or not.
The reason you want to be in a relationship so badly is because Source, God, wants to experience that through you! The reason you want a healthy body so badly is because Source, your Higher Self, wants to experience that through you. The reason you want to have financial abundance is because Spirit wants to experience that through you. The reason you want to help others so badly is because Spirit wants to experience that through you. In allowing God, your Higher Self, to move through you through the thoughts you hold, the words you speak, and the actions you take, the whole of the Universe expands. You are now giving humanity and the Universe a gift by simply holding true to knowing that your thoughts are expressing God.
There is a force is this world that is more power-full than we can comprehend. There is a force in this world that is creative beyond recognition. There is a force in this world that has the ability to bring peace to all beings. There is a force in this world that sees all beings and things as extensions, expressions, of the One. There is a force in this world that is Love. This force in this world is You.
May you remember that all of your days!
All My Love,
Zach IAM
BROTHERS, YOU ARE WEAK IN GIVING IN…
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I want to preface this post by saying that I am speaking to my brothers with a predominantly masculine essence who are in committed loving relationships with their partner. All beings contain both masculine and feminine essences, however the majority of us predominantly have one or the other. The way to know if you have a masculine essence is to ask yourself, “In a committed, intimate relationship, would I rather be the predominantly ravager or the ravagee?” If you would rather be the ravager, then you more than likely have a predominantly masculine essence. As spiritual beings we chose to come forth into, and experience, a stronger essence, either masculine or feminine, so that we may fulfill the tasks we set for ourselves. As such, brothers, this one’s for you…
As a masculine essence you came forth from Non-Physical, Spirit, Source, Infinite Principle, Good Principle, God Principle, to move through the chaos that is the Feminine energy with fervor, with passion, with skill, with Love. You chose to enter into a masculine essence because you wanted to move through, around, above, below, the obstacles that the feminine essence displayed to you so that you could strengthen your Self. You wanted to strengthen the Active Principle within you so that you may remember that you are God, Spirit, incarnate.
From an unconscious perspective, you chose the partner you are now with because you knew that this partner would be able to challenge you so that you could strengthen your core. You chose this partner because she would cause you to question your self and insure that you grew spiritually. You chose her because somewhere within you, you knew that she could potentially be the Goddess to your God, the queen to your king.
Now brothers, the most important thing I want to relay to you is that if your woman is nagging you constantly, IT IS YOUR FAULT! Very simply, the reason your woman is nagging you is because she no longer trusts you to be her King. She no longer trusts your masculine core. You have become lazy, you have denied your Self, you have stopped giving your gift to the world, and in doing so your woman no longer respects you. It is blunt, but it is true.
If you are with a woman who you were once madly in Love with and could see being with no other woman, yet she constantly nags you, it is your fault!
Your woman’s nagging is an unconscious way of her Feminine challenging your Masculine. More times than you’d realize, our women can see who we are before we can. They can see not only potential within us, but can see that core Masculine strength which we possess. If you are not living up to this core strength which you carry within you at all times, your woman begins to challenge you in order to stimulate your recognition of that.
Some of my brothers will say, “But I’m tired I want to sit down and relax and watch TV.” You have now allowed life to drain you of your inner strength. The reason your sex life has become nothing, like two fishes flopping around out of water together, is because your woman has now had to compensate and dwindle her Feminine essence while taking on more masculine qualities, and that is NOT her responsibility! That’s why she chose YOU! She no longer respects you because you allow this thing you call life to drain you. How are you going to open her to God through your loving if life’s simple experiences drain your Life Force?
In giving in to your woman’s commands you have now relinquished everything that has made you the King in her eyes. A happy wife is NOT a happy life. That is laziness and that is weakness! A woman must respect her man! She must respect that he has the enduring strength to stand in his complete Presence and give his deepest gifts to the world. She must respect that no matter what turmoils might seem to be placed in his path he has the ability to maneuver around them with skill and ease. She must respect that with every challenge she provides him, he will rise to the occasion and stand among the mountain top with Love in his heart and Light from his being.
You can be a stay-at-home dad, while still being able to give your gifts from your deepest heart. It does not matter that you bring home the bacon, it does not matter that you have chest hair and a beard, what matters is that your woman can trust that you will carry her with you to the Peak of Truth….what matters is that your woman respects the Presence with which you stand in every moment of Life…what matters is that you are living true to your Heart so that you may be a guide to others to live from theirs.
My brothers, life is not trying to beat you down, it is challenging to become the man you wished to become as you chose to step forth into this physical vessel. Your woman is an extension of Life. You came forth knowing that you would embody the Active Principle of Life. You knew within the deepest place of your heart that nothing in life could hinder you from giving your gifts. You knew that within you was the Principle that creates worlds, was the Light that could cut through any darkness. You knew that you would choose a partner who would help you remember that and that she would be your most precious gift…for she would see you as the God You are, knowing fully of what you are capable, as you would honor her Goddess.
Remember your strength my brothers. Live true to your heart, for that is where you will remember why you are here, and which gifts you will give. For in your heart you can laugh at the obstacles that enter your path because you embody the Active Principle of God, and nothing can disturb that Presence. Love your woman with the Love that creates worlds. Love your woman that causes Angels to weep. Give your Love to ALL your brothers and sisters. You are One with the Creator, you are that very thing, as is your woman, as are your brothers, as are your sisters. Be You.
All My Love,
Zach IAM
Spiritual Life Coach | Zach Tavcar 