F**k What Everyone Else I Doing…Run Your Race

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F**k what everyone else is doing and run your race! Forget what everyone else is saying about you…if you are living authentically to the knowing of your heart and soul, run that race to the fullest!

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F*ck The Law of Attraction

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F*ck The Law of Attraction

This is a response video to a spiritual teacher who said to f*ck the law of attraction. My response addresses what I feel is the biggest inconsistency with those of us who believe in the law of attraction and how we can go about changing it so that we live free.

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The Art of Happiness

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The Art of Happiness

Lately I’ve been asking myself how I can affect the world? I asked myself today, “How can I help others experience the joy and sheer happiness that I live each day?” I thought about the wonderful life I live. I thought about my amazingly perfect finance. I thought about the fact that I just celebrated my 12 year anniversary on February 12th of my bone marrow transplant. I thought about the fact that I get to open my eyes each morning, that I get to wake up in a warm bed, that I get to spend money on delicious foods, that I have the option to go and exercise at an amazing gym. And I thought, “Why doesn’t everyone know how to experience the joy and happiness I do?” Here’s my answer…

Art of Happiness, Inspirational quotes, life coach reno nv, Zach Tavcar

Where Is Happiness?

Happiness. What is it? Where is it? As a life coach the first thing I hear from my clients is, “I want this, or I want that, or I need direction here, or I need perspective here.” What I respond with always is, “Why?” Why do we want anything other than what we see in front of us? Why don’t want we want to live in our now moments? Why are we always searching for something else? Typically the response is, “Because I’m not happy where I’m at!” Ah ha! So really the underlying desire is to find happiness. And I use that phrase loosely because that is what we tend to hear. “Go find your happiness!” “Seek to find joy.” As if joy and happiness are some external pot of gold at the end of your new boyfriend rainbow…or perhaps at the end of your lottery rainbow…EVEN BETTER! And so you seek and you seek and you seek, but that rainbow continually evades you until you are left in despair and sadness.

So I ask my clients, “Mrs. Jones, where is your happiness?” “I don’t know Zach that’s why I called you!” We have developed these habits of understanding that happiness is outside of my realm of existence. When somebody tells me I’m good at something, or I’m beautiful, or I’m smart, or I’m funny, or when someone really really really understands me then I’ll be happy. So then you meet someone who tells you you’re beautiful and you’re happy then they stop texting you and you’re sad, then someone looks you in the eye and really listens to you and you’re happy, but then they avoid you and you’re depressed. Constantly riding the teeter-totter of other-induced emotional chaos. And then you and your friends get together and talk about how Dillon is a dick for not texting you good morning or how he’s changed and doesn’t treat you like you deserve to be treated anymore, and you suffer.

Here you are, being thrown on the tumultuous sea of relationship-induced emotion, or work-induced emotion, and you forget to ask yourself where your emotion comes from and resides. So where is it? Who in this now moment is experiencing pain? Fear? Anger? Resentment? Hope? Joy? Happiness? It is only you. And where do these emotions emanate? Why of course…it’s YOU! When you have a delicious piece of fruit do you think that happiness is contained within it’s walls and you just absorb that joy as you eat it? While you are having a wonderful conversation with a friend or partner do they just exude happiness and you absorb it? Of course not! Happiness, joy, love, hope, fear, resentment, anger, depression all reside and come from you!

What Is Happiness?

So if happiness comes from you, what in the world it it? Why do sometimes you experience happiness and sometimes experience sadness? Now these questions are the bread and vegan butter to your life.

Happiness is nothing more than an indicator of your connection to your Inner Being. Hear this…I’m going to say it again. Happiness is nothing more than your indication of your connection to your Inner Being. You can call this Inner Being anything you want to…Spirit, Source of All That Is, Divine Intelligence, Holy Spirit, Soul, God, Guardian Angels, Energy, whatever. Now if you are not a believer of a Presence that pervades all things and supports all life, you’re in the wrong place, scroll to the “x” at the top of the page and go watch some youtube videos.

Abraham-Hicks describe your emotions as a GPS system. Our emotions are a way to know how in alignment we are to our Inner Being. When we feel good that is an indication that we are in alignment with Spirit. When we feel bad that is an indication that we are out of alignment with Spirit. That is all…your emotion does not belong to anyone else other than you because your emotions are your indicator of your alignment with your Inner Being.

How Do I Align With My Inner Being?

Well that’s a very good question!!! Thanks for asking! To go further, your emotions are your indication of how well your THOUGHTS are in, or out of, alignment with your Inner Being. So think for a second about having everything you have ever desired. Think about living your dream life with your perfect partner, your perfect body, your perfect house, in your perfect career. Now when you visualize yourself being in that place you feel good. You align with where the larger part of you, your Inner Being, already is. Your thoughts and beliefs are the creative force in your life and your emotions indicate whether you are aligning with what your Inner Being’s thoughts are upon the same subject!

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When you bottle yourself up in your house and watch reality TV, then judge the people on TV, then think about all the things that they have that you want and how they don’t deserve it, you feel bad! You feel like shit don’t you? And why do you feel that way? Because the thoughts you are currently thinking and the thoughts your Inner Being have about that same topic are in complete misalignment! But when you go outside for a walk, listening to the birds singing, thinking about how great your body feels and how warm the sun feels on your skin you feel great! Because in that moment the thoughts you are thinking are in complete alignment with your Higher Self!

How Do I Hold Onto Happiness?

Goodness, you are just full of great questions! 😉 Happiness is not something you need to hold onto because it is never outside of you. No matter how many times you get thrown into anger or fear or sadness, happiness is your natural state of being. One thing you can hold onto is the fact that happiness is your natural state. Babies come into this world full of joy. Why do you think so many people are drawn to a smiling baby? Because in that moment of sheer joy shining from the baby you are reminded of the beauty of life.

Happiness, just like any emotion, is simply an indicator. When you remind yourself of that, and begin to believe it, you know without a doubt that happiness is literally just a thought away. So the question really becomes, “How can you be a deliberate focuser of your thoughts?” How can you right now redirect your thoughts so that happiness and joy emanate from you? How can you change the thoughts you’ve been thinking right now so that you bring forth more joy from within?

When you begin to see that there is a stream of well-being that abounds in this reality, you begin to let go of all the thoughts that cause you to feel fear. When you begin to realize that joy is the state of nature, then you rest the constant thinking that overrides you. When you begin to believe that there is a Presence that wants only the best for you, when you cultivate that faith, happiness can only be there within you.

What Can I Do To Be Happy?

Now that’s the question you should be asking!

The first thing you can do it develop a practice that brings you into the now. I suggest meditation or ecstatic dancing. The sheer purpose of these practices is to develop awareness of the now moment by recognizing that you are the director of your thoughts, and not that your thoughts direct you. These help to bring you into your now, forgetting all the things could happen or might happen, and allow you to be where everything IS happening.

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The second thing you can do is begin being thankful for this life and everything you possess in it. Gratitude without a doubt flips the switch in your brain and enacts the great Law of Attraction to work for you. Waking up in the morning and starting to think thoughts about all the wonderful things in your life connects you immediately with your Inner Being and gratitude ensues. Gratitude and happiness are on a vibrational equivalent and as you think thoughts that cultivate gratitude, the Law of Attraction brings you similar thoughts that match those thoughts.

The last thing you can do is read books that help you change your perspective, and to get out and move your body. Reading books that remind you of your innate potential enhance the mind and the soul, and getting out and exercising or moving enhance your body. The effects of exercise on happiness are too numerous to count. When you are enriching your mind, body, and spirit you can bet your sexy ass that your feelings of happiness will overflow.

BE Happy!

I hope that this little meandering has helped you to realize that only YOU can create your own happiness. I hope you’ve come to realize that you can get out of your own way. You have every opportunity to live a life that is deserving of you, and not only can you but you should! The Source of All That Is did not build a world where suffering is the only option and the dominant force. Happiness, joy, love are our true reminders of our innate beauty and potential. When you remember that, when you truly begin to believe that once again, happiness will be your overriding feeling. You’ll remember how perfect you are and how with practice, and then with habit, that happiness is a choice and it is accomplished through your thoughts.

 

With All My Love,

Zach ❤ 🙂

Workout of the Day December 21, 2015

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Physical Workout of the Day:

My Rounds = 6 + 1 K2E (24 inch box)

Shauna’s Rounds = 6 + 6 BBJ (18 inch box)

Spiritual Workout of the Day:

Mantra Meditation

Today’s workout is for aligning with a single pointed mindset through our meditation. The 3 mantras to choose from during this meditation will be “I AM,” “I am Love,” or “I am protected.” For this meditation find a comfortable sitting position or lying position. Set a timer for 15-20 minutes and start it. Uncross all of your limbs and close you eyes. Bring your awareness to your breath and begin feeling the rise and fall of your abdomen, breathing in and out through your nose. Your focus for the first few minutes will be on allowing your breath to move from your chest and into your abdomen. Do not control the depth or speed of your breath, allow it to be, yet simply guide its movement from the chest and move it into the belly. Once the breath has moved into the belly you will begin your mantra. For the first mantra, as you inhale you will say “I” and as you exhale saying “AM.” For the second and/or third mantra, as you inhale you will say ” I am” and as you exhale you will say “Love/protected” depending on which mantra you choose is right for you today. Continue with that pattern until your timer goes off.

 Inspirational quotes, life coach reno nv, Zach Tavcar

Daily Affirmation:

“You have the ability to change your life. You have the ability to change the world. This ability comes from your ability to allow. to allow Love to be your dominant intent. To allow Source to move through you. to allow all the blessings waiting for you to move into your experience. For when you are connected you thrive and those around you thrive.”

You can see our previous workout for a releasing process in which you can connect with your Divine Feminine essence and allow any gunned up energy be released 😉

Feel free to contact me if you are interested in life coaching and personal training services I offer…

Workout of the Day December 17, 2015

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Physical Workout of the Day:

My Rounds = 6 + 10 HSPUs (30 lb DBs)

My Time = 5 + 8 Walking Lunges (20 lb DBs)

Mental Workout of the Day:

Ecstatic Dancing

Ecstatic dancing is a mindfulness meditation. Put on your 3 favorite songs, close your eyes, and dance. Move your body with the rhythms of the music. Don’t worry about what is happening, just allow your body to move as the music infuses the cells of your body. You can do anything you want, no one will be in the room other than you. All you have to allow yourself to do is move and feel free. When the 3 songs are done just stand and feel your feet connected to the ground. Feel the energy of your body connecting you with the energy of the earth, Gaia. Stand there and feel the support of your Mother as long as you like and then you are finished with today’s workout.

 Inspirational quote, best life coach, best personal trainer, zach tavcar, www.zachtavcar.com

Daily Affirmation:

“It’s often easy to forget how far we’ve come. Think back at the times in your life that seemed most difficult and how every time you made it through.”

You can see the previous workout if you would like a process/meditation to help open your heart of stuck energies and release & heal past wounds 😉

Feel free to contact me if you are interested in life coaching and personal training services I offer…

Workout of the Day December 7, 2015

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Physical Workout of the Day:

My Rounds = 4 + 8 Ring Dips (155 lbs)

Shauna’s Rounds = 4 + 6 Deadlifts (95 lbs)

Spiritual Workout of the Day:

Heart Breathing…

This is a simply heart meditation/breathing technique which enables you to ground yourself and consciously connect to your heart and intuition.

Start by finding a comfortable sitting position. Close your eyes and place your right hand over your heart. Keeping your mouth gently closed begin breathing in and out through your nose. Allow your breathing to naturally move into your belly, feeling your belly expand as you inhale and relax as you exhale. Once you feel your abdomen moving with your breath, focus your awareness on your heart. Begin to feel your heart breathing you. Feel your heart expand as you inhale and relax as you exhale. Maintain your awareness on your heart, expanding and contracting with each breath. Continue as long as you would like with this meditation, but at least 5 minutes.

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Daily Affirmation:

“Trying amplifies the lack of belief in oneself, in the Laws of the Universe, in Source Itself, in well-being.” ~Abraham-Hicks

You can see our previous workout if you would like a process to raise your clear stuck energy in your energetic body through movement and letting go 😉

Feel free to contact me if you are interested in life coaching and personal training services I offer…

THERE IS ONLY A STREAM OF WELL-BEING…

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The past few days I have returned to my roots, so-to-speak, in regards to my spiritual belief patterns. I have been feeling a change occurring and so I began re-reading “Ask and It Is Given” and “The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent” by Esther and Jerry Hicks. In the past few days I remembered my ability to FEEL amazing again. I remembered why the Law of Attraction called so deeply to my soul, and why I found The Teachings of Abraham at such a young age. Today as I meditated it felt as if Abraham was speaking directly to me, inspiring my heart, and reigniting my conscious understand of the amazing power we all innately possess and I want to share that realization with you here…

As I meditated today I began to affirm gently to myself that there is only a Stream of Well-Being. The past few days this has heavily forced its way back into the forefront of my conscious focus. However, today as I gently reminded myself of this fact I was struck with an impulse…

Because there is only a Stream of Well-Being that flows, there can never be the PRESENCE of anything negative in our experiences. There is only a Stream of Well-Being, a stream of health, a stream of abundance, a stream of joy/love/appreciation/enthusiasm/passion. Therefore, since there is only a stream of well-being, when you are experiencing something negative as we would say, there is only the ABSENCE of well-being. This means that there is only the ABSENCE or PRESENCE of what is wanted or desired.

There is only a stream of light…darkness is not the PRESENCE of darkness, but the mere ABSENCE of light. Fear is not the PRESENCE of fear, but the ABSENCE of love. Dis-ease is not the PRESENCE of ill-ness, but the ABSENCE of health. Poverty is not the PRESENCE of poverty, but the ABSENCE of abundance.

In nature, you don’t plant a seed and expect for a sick-ridden plant to grow. You don’t expect the plant to come out black, with tar oozing from it’s branches. You understand that by watering it and exposing it to light it will grow perfectly as it should. You understand that there is only a stream of life force moving it to grow, and if the plant is not nurtured it may grow deformed or die. If the stream is not allowed, then an unwanted condition appears, but it is not because the steam of negativity appeared, only because the well-being was not allowed.

We must begin to change our beliefs regarding life as a whole in order to live the miraculous that is meant for us. I noticed for myself today while I was driving to work that for so long I didn’t feel like the universe, Source, God, had my back. I felt like I had to do it all on my own. Even after studying the Law of Attraction for a decade I still felt as if it was necessary for me to be the emitter of the vibration I was wanting and have the universe just do it for me, exactly how I thought it should happen and exactly as I wanted it to happen. I felt like there was a round-about way in which I could use the laws of the universe to get me everything I wanted, instead of understanding that I need to work WITH the laws of the universe.

In order to start living the miraculous, we must begin to challenge our old patterns of thinking so that we believe the universe, Source, God, is working FOR us and WITH us! How freeing is it to belief and KNOW that the Consciousness that creates worlds is at our disposal, wanting nothing more than for our highest achievement, and supporting us in our every move?! Isn’t that freeing?!?! Isn’t it wonderful to feel like you can put your trust in the Force that creates worlds?! Isn’t it freeing to know that what you are wanting has already been achieved and that it is simply up to you to align with what it is you are wanting?! I feel so free realizing that I have a Divine Manager who is organizing all necessary components so that I may joyously bask in the fulfillment of my desires!!! And not only that, but enjoy the unfolding of my desires along the way!!!

The problems of the world are not that there isn’t enough stuff, or there isn’t enough to go around, or people can hurt me, or I am alone…but far more important it is our belief in that illusion. A Course in Miracles says, “Nothing real can be threatened, and Nothing unreal exists.” It goes on to say that only Love is real and fear doesn’t exist. My friends, my dear brothers and sisters, Love, the stream of well-being is all there is. Fear is not real, and in our experience of fear, it is only our misconception of the stream of Well-Being. It is our reminder that we are dealing in illusions, that we have gone astray from our deeper, innate understanding as extensions of Source, of God. In the Gospel of Luke it is said that the kingdom of heaven is within man. Where there is a kingdom there must reside a king. A Course in Miracles goes further and states, “that the Kingdom of Heaven IS man.”

My friends we have not fallen from grace, far from it. We have simply lost touch with our Divine understanding. The toils of the world have taken our focus away from our deepest knowing, have distracted us from our remembrance. Those of you who read this know deep within you that these words are true. You say to yourself, “Of course! How could I have forgotten this?!” But now you have remembered, and will never again forgot.

We are here as ambassadors of Love. Each and every individual on this planet comes as an extension of Source, an extension of God. Even though many do not remember their Divine ancestry, they are every bit as majestic as you and everyone else. Now is the time that words like these begin to be shared. Now is the time for our conscious remembrance of our highest knowing. It is no longer time to berate or blame anyone else for our circumstances, situations, or experiences. Now is the time for us to take responsibility for our lives and our experiences as we understand that we are the ultimate creators of our reality. Now is the time to LOVINGLY affect the vibration of all our brothers and sisters. Now is the time that WE LOVINGLY raise our vibrations to the states of bliss, appreciation, passion, enthusiasm, kindness, compassion, joy, excitement so that we affect ALL others even on an unconscious level.

As extensions of God, we KNOW that only Love exists. As extensions of Spirit, we KNOW that there is only a Stream of Well-Being. As extensions of Source, we KNOW our Infinite Potential. Now is the time that we LIVE that. No longer can we talk about kindness, then berate others. No longer can we talk about forgiveness, then judge others. No longer can we talk about Love, then demean ourselves. Now we must live true to our Selves. Now we must BE the Light. Now we must align, through our thoughts, with the Source of All-That-Is. Now we must return to our knowing of our reason for being here. We must return to joy, to peace, to enthusiasm, to freedom, to kindness, to compassion, to self-exploration, to excitement, to passion, to LOVE. May you remember this.

All My Love,

Zach