Thoughts I wanted to share on allowing others to walk their path, no matter how different their path may be to yours.
All My Love,
Zach
relationships
OUR SEXUALITY OBSESSION…
UncategorizedA video I watched tonight inspired within me to talk about this topic and I wanted to share it with anyone who it calls to 🙂 It is a fun topic and I hope you enjoy!
All My Love
Zach IAM
Why Should I Meditate?
UncategorizedAnswering some questions on why it is important to meditate, and how to meditate. Hope you enjoy!
All My Love,
Zach IAM
YOUR CAPACITY TO LOVE…
UncategorizedAs human beings we have the unlimited capacity to Love. In our deepest understanding, the Essence of our being is truly Love. There is no darkness, there is no sin, there is no evil, those are ideas that have been propagated by those who did not understand Who-We-Are. We are the Infinite Light of the world, the untouched perfection of Divinity. You have the choice. The choice to remember that you are the embodiment of the Divine Principle and express Love, to embody your highest knowing in each moment…or the choice to forget Who-You-Are, to believe that you are a sinner, that humans are inherently evil, and that you are unworthy. Our capacity to Love is far deeper than our ability to fear, because innately we are Love. Give your Essence to the animals, the plants, your brothers and sisters, to Gaia…it is needed, YOU are needed!!!
Zach IAM
LOVE THEM ANYWAYS…
UncategorizedYou see, your Love is a gift. Not only is it a gift, but it is the very Essence of your Being. You are the embodiment of Love. When you choose to give Love, you choose to enter into union with the highest aspect of your Self. When you choose to give Love, you choose to help others see that within themselves. When you choose to BE Love, you are now the most power-full force in the universe.
There are times in life when it seems so incredibly difficult to give Love. It seems so far away to truly feel Love for somebody who has hurt us, or hurt another. It seems so difficult to give Love when we feel that life is draining us of our energy. It seems so difficult to BE Love, when all we can think about is getting the bills paid, returning our bodies to health, healing past relationships with family, friends, or lovers.
In those difficult times, we must remember who we are. No matter how difficult it may be to rise to the occassion, and accept where we are, we must go deeper below the surface of life. We must look within our hearts, we must search the depths of our souls, looking below all the insignificant turmoils of life, and realize how beauty-full we are.
We must remind ourselves that the Looker behind our eyes is not simply our brain, It is deeper. We must remind ourselves that the Taster beneath our tongue is not simply our brain, It is deeper. We must remind ourselves that the Feeler below our skin is not simply our nerves, It is deeper. The Experiencer that we are is not our body, It is much deeper.
In our truest nature, we are Love. We are the embodiment of Infinite Presence and Love. We are extensions of the One True Love. We are the expression of Divine Principle and Love. We are Love.
In knowing this, there is no longer need for judgement. We now understand that no matter how hurtful somebody’s words or actions can be, in their deepest heart, they are Love. When your boss calls you incompetent, go deep within your Self and Love them ayways. When your friend tells you that you are worthless, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways. When your parent calls you stupid, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways. When your foe strikes you with his fist, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways. When your lover breaks your heart, go deep within your Self and Love them anyways.
From that place of Love, you now know that all the strength in the world lies within You. From that place of understanding, all the forces in the Universe come to your aid and guide you. From that place of Peace, you can then know which path to take to live the Life you have set forth for yourself.
To Love, does not mean to accept abuse. It does not mean trying to fix somebody you think is broken. It does not mean accepting hurtful words and actions because you like who they use to be. It does not mean allowing others to treat you disrespectfully and laughing it off. To Love, means that no matter what anybody says or does to you that you can Love them anyways, and maintain an enduring Presence. It means that no matter what they say or do, you are now conscious of your response towards them. You no longer REACT in anger, but RESPOND in compassion. It means to give them your Love while allowing them to walk their own path. It means walking with an open heart and knowing who You are in each moment. It means to walk with the Infinite in each moment, and knowing fully that you are protected. To Love means to be You.
As You give your Love, the Universe responds with giving You Love…that is my promise! Spirit does not want you to suffer, but it will not ease your suffering without your consent. You are here to remember who You are. You are here to experience the full spectrum of human emotion and life experiences. You chose as an extension of the Divine to step forth into your physical body to experience ALL that life had to offer. And You knew that there would come a time when You would remember who You really are…and that time has come. Remember…search within the depths of your heart…breathe within the fire of your soul…You are Love! May you remember this all of your days!
All My Love,
Zach IAM
BROTHERS, YOU ARE WEAK IN GIVING IN…
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I want to preface this post by saying that I am speaking to my brothers with a predominantly masculine essence who are in committed loving relationships with their partner. All beings contain both masculine and feminine essences, however the majority of us predominantly have one or the other. The way to know if you have a masculine essence is to ask yourself, “In a committed, intimate relationship, would I rather be the predominantly ravager or the ravagee?” If you would rather be the ravager, then you more than likely have a predominantly masculine essence. As spiritual beings we chose to come forth into, and experience, a stronger essence, either masculine or feminine, so that we may fulfill the tasks we set for ourselves. As such, brothers, this one’s for you…
As a masculine essence you came forth from Non-Physical, Spirit, Source, Infinite Principle, Good Principle, God Principle, to move through the chaos that is the Feminine energy with fervor, with passion, with skill, with Love. You chose to enter into a masculine essence because you wanted to move through, around, above, below, the obstacles that the feminine essence displayed to you so that you could strengthen your Self. You wanted to strengthen the Active Principle within you so that you may remember that you are God, Spirit, incarnate.
From an unconscious perspective, you chose the partner you are now with because you knew that this partner would be able to challenge you so that you could strengthen your core. You chose this partner because she would cause you to question your self and insure that you grew spiritually. You chose her because somewhere within you, you knew that she could potentially be the Goddess to your God, the queen to your king.
Now brothers, the most important thing I want to relay to you is that if your woman is nagging you constantly, IT IS YOUR FAULT! Very simply, the reason your woman is nagging you is because she no longer trusts you to be her King. She no longer trusts your masculine core. You have become lazy, you have denied your Self, you have stopped giving your gift to the world, and in doing so your woman no longer respects you. It is blunt, but it is true.
If you are with a woman who you were once madly in Love with and could see being with no other woman, yet she constantly nags you, it is your fault!
Your woman’s nagging is an unconscious way of her Feminine challenging your Masculine. More times than you’d realize, our women can see who we are before we can. They can see not only potential within us, but can see that core Masculine strength which we possess. If you are not living up to this core strength which you carry within you at all times, your woman begins to challenge you in order to stimulate your recognition of that.
Some of my brothers will say, “But I’m tired I want to sit down and relax and watch TV.” You have now allowed life to drain you of your inner strength. The reason your sex life has become nothing, like two fishes flopping around out of water together, is because your woman has now had to compensate and dwindle her Feminine essence while taking on more masculine qualities, and that is NOT her responsibility! That’s why she chose YOU! She no longer respects you because you allow this thing you call life to drain you. How are you going to open her to God through your loving if life’s simple experiences drain your Life Force?
In giving in to your woman’s commands you have now relinquished everything that has made you the King in her eyes. A happy wife is NOT a happy life. That is laziness and that is weakness! A woman must respect her man! She must respect that he has the enduring strength to stand in his complete Presence and give his deepest gifts to the world. She must respect that no matter what turmoils might seem to be placed in his path he has the ability to maneuver around them with skill and ease. She must respect that with every challenge she provides him, he will rise to the occasion and stand among the mountain top with Love in his heart and Light from his being.
You can be a stay-at-home dad, while still being able to give your gifts from your deepest heart. It does not matter that you bring home the bacon, it does not matter that you have chest hair and a beard, what matters is that your woman can trust that you will carry her with you to the Peak of Truth….what matters is that your woman respects the Presence with which you stand in every moment of Life…what matters is that you are living true to your Heart so that you may be a guide to others to live from theirs.
My brothers, life is not trying to beat you down, it is challenging to become the man you wished to become as you chose to step forth into this physical vessel. Your woman is an extension of Life. You came forth knowing that you would embody the Active Principle of Life. You knew within the deepest place of your heart that nothing in life could hinder you from giving your gifts. You knew that within you was the Principle that creates worlds, was the Light that could cut through any darkness. You knew that you would choose a partner who would help you remember that and that she would be your most precious gift…for she would see you as the God You are, knowing fully of what you are capable, as you would honor her Goddess.
Remember your strength my brothers. Live true to your heart, for that is where you will remember why you are here, and which gifts you will give. For in your heart you can laugh at the obstacles that enter your path because you embody the Active Principle of God, and nothing can disturb that Presence. Love your woman with the Love that creates worlds. Love your woman that causes Angels to weep. Give your Love to ALL your brothers and sisters. You are One with the Creator, you are that very thing, as is your woman, as are your brothers, as are your sisters. Be You.
All My Love,
Zach IAM
PARABLE OF FORGIVENESS…
UncategorizedA short parable of the Buddha on compassion and Love…
EXPERIENCING THE SHIT…
Uncategorized“The wound is where the Light enters you.” -Rumi
As I was laying on the floor a few moments ago, listening to “Glass Jar” by Tristan Prettyman, a montage of an ex, whom I still love, and myself began to run through my mind. As the notes of the guitar played images flooded my mind of me holding her, of us arguing in the kitchen, of her upset with me because of my actions, with me abruptly and childishly leaving the bed to sleep on the couch, and I realized…Ah Ha!! All these experiences have given rise to the beauty-full relationship I now desire.
Each one of those experiences with this person caused me to want more. With every unwanted situation, contrast, I unconsciously shot a rocket of desire for that which I DID want to experience. For every argument, I desired to experience a person who understood my opinion…for every yelling match, I desired to have an open-ended discussion…for every night going to bed angry, I desired to go to bed in love…for every unexpressed feeling, I desired to have a verbally-open partner. With every unwanted situation I unconsciously told the Universe exactly what I DID want to experience.
It is our job as creators, as extensions of God, as extensions of the One, to experience the contrast in this reality and from there be cognizant of what we DO wish to experience and hold that as our dominant thought and intention. With every experience of not having enough money, we tell the Universe that we want to have more money. With every experience of feeling fat or unattractive, we tell the Universe we want to feel fit and healthy. With every unwanted fight with our partner, we tell the Universe we want to experience more Love and affection with our partner.
We don’t create abundance by talking about all the bad situations we are experiencing, about all the lackful experiences we are having, with how ugly we feel, because the Universe will give us more of the essence of those thoughts…more experiences to make us feel lost, or poor, or ugly…because the Universe simply mimics what we send out through our thoughts. Once we experience those situations we then know exactly what we do want…to be grounded, financially abundant, and beautiful.
The trick to manifestation is holding our inner sight to that which we are wanting to experience. “As is your sight, so is your creation.” “That which is like unto itself is drawn.” “The rich get rich the poor get poorer.”
As we hold our dominant thoughts to that which we are wanting to experience and having positive expectation about the manifestation of those things they then show up in our experience. As we have faith and believe that the Universe is providing us exactly what we are holding as our dominant thoughts, we then see proof that we are Creators of our own realities. We are the Universe experiencing Itself. As we hold true to our inner sight, as we believe that which we are wanting is already ours, the Universe then moves through us in the form of inspiration so that It may experience Itself in the form of those manifested experiences. It aligns all things, people, circumstances, so that It may experience Itself through you.
And it all happened as the result of experiencing the contrast, the unwanted. Do not get stuck up on what has happened in the past, for they are gifts for what you can Now experience in your present. You are an extension of the One Creative Principle and you are Divine. Remember that the experiences we may call, the shit, is all part of allowing you to remember how incredibly Power-full you are as an extension of Source. You are here to experience ALL of life, and from that choose what you are wanting to experience. Remember who you are, and what you are capable of, for that is what you came here to do.
All My Love,
Zach IAM
LADIES, WHAT DO YOU WANT IN A MAN?
UncategorizedThis title is a trick question, because ladies let’s be honest…what you want in your head and what you want in your heart do not always match up…nor does it always match up for men. I absolutely LOVE talking about relationships because they are so much FUN! I want to write this not only for my sisters so that you can consciously understand why you are doing what you are doing at times, but for my brothers so that you can stop blaming your woman for your failures and shortcomings. So, this post is meant for those women with a Feminine Essence and men with a Masculine Essence. To recognize if you have a Feminine or Masculine Essence ask yourself, “Do I want to be ravaged or be the ravager?” The Feminine wants to be ravaged by the Masculine and opened to God, and the Masculine wants to ravage and break through the chaos of the Feminine so that it can experience God. With that being said, here we go…
Sisters, first and foremost, do not expect your man to fully understand you. You can hardly consciously understand yourselves, and no matter how many romantic comedies you watch, no man will ever FULLY understand you. Will a man who is fully embodied in his Divinity be more aware of you and be able to flow with you more easily, absolutely…but do not expect your man to know exactly what you want. Secondly, recognize that as a Feminine Essence, you are the embodiment of the totality of Life. You are the ocean of Consciousness and Love, you are the chaos of Life, you need movement, your need expressive expansion, you are nurturing, you are healing, you are the Goddess.
As a woman with a Feminine Essence you want your opposite, we all do. The Feminine wants her Masculine counterpart to enter into the Unity of Life. I am not saying that you NEED your counterpart because ultimately we all have aspects of both the Masculine and Feminine but we tend to be predominantly one. So the Feminine wants to open to Infinite Consciousness through her partnership with the Masculine. Ladies, if you can understand this next point you will begin to understand why you are attracted to jerks…
A Masculine Essence is stability, is rigidity, is directiveness, is take-control-ive-ness, is Light, is active, is direct movement, is grounded Presence. Most men, especially after they have been in a relationship for a while, my past-self included, lose sight that they are Infinite Focused Presence. They become wimpy and push-overs. There responses become, “Yes dear…Okay dear…why are you so naggy dear?” They begin to blame their woman for their short-comings because they think if they don’t succumb to their woman’s wants they will lose her.
What a woman’s heart truly wants is her King. She wants a man who she can trust. She wants a man who will show the world that she is HIS. She wants a man to worship her Inner Goddess. She wants to be seen as the object of pure desire in her man’s eyes. She wants to unconsciously test her man again and again and again and know that his strength will not be moved. She wants a man who is so strong in his Presence that nothing can move his core. She wants a man who is giving his gift to the world with full openness, penetrating all barriers that life seems to throw his way. She wants a man that she can put her faith in and know that he will walk with her as he holds her hand. A woman who when confused at life around her, can come to her man and be calmed by his humor and in his loving!
I say these things and I do not mean a man who will not do the dishes, who will not love his children, who is so rigid that he will not change his beliefs, but a man that is so present within himself that he can wash the dishes with fluidity, that can love his children with his whole heart, and that will adapt to new thoughts and beliefs that come his way.
A superior man cannot be drained by the world because in giving his gift he is constantly renewed.
Each woman who reads this will say YES! YES I do! But women, you must also recognize that you CHOSE your partner. You chose him for some reason. It could been because your Feminine was attracted to his Masculine, it could have been because you settled because the sex was good, it could have been for a variety of reasons, but you did choose your man. The question you would ask yourself is do I trust my man with my heart? If I don’t trust my man with my heart, why am I not opening fully to life? As a Feminine Essence you thrive when you are open and accepting of life. The ocean does not fight the rain, it accepts it. You do not have to accept anger and abuse, but you do have to make the conscious choice to be open to life with a full heart…for there will you experience the joy of Femininity.
Now, men, my brothers, Masculine Essences, being Masculine does not mean being a meat-head. It does not mean forcing anything upon anyone. It does not mean holding so rigid that you break. It does not mean being butch and egoic. It means that you have the choice right now to live true to the words of your heart. To be grounded and to walk with that Presence. It means to find the deepest gift of your heart, and to share it unendingly with the World.
Being Masculine means taking the challenges of your women as gifts to able to stay center in your Being and penetrate all choas. These are gifts that your woman is providing you to strengthen your inner knowing and to trust fully in that knowing…
I will end this post here for today. My dear sisters, thank you for being the goddesses that you are! My dear brothers, thank you for being the Gods that you are! Now choose to embody fully your Essence and live true to that always! Until next time…
All My Love,
Zach IAM
YOU HAVE A CHOICE…
UncategorizedAs I write this first line my heart if filled with confusion and anger. I have just watched a video of a beauty-full young dog being shot to death by a police officer. My response to watching such a horrific act was wanting to punish that police officer forever!! To make him realize what a horrific act he has portrayed and see that he suffers!!!
However, in the instant that I wished harm upon this fear-full man, I recognized a stronger pull within me. A pull towards understanding what the contrast of the video has caused within me. A pull towards looking at this situation from a broader perspective, one that I am always preaching to others…a pull towards compassion and gratitude for this beauty-full puppy. I realized that if I became angry, I had no power to enact change within the hearts of others, and that puppy’s life would have been for loss. Instead, this puppy has given me a gift…a gift of awakening.
You see my lovelies, in watching this video I now know what it is that I DO want. I want for ALL my brothers and sisters to recognize their own Divinity!! I want ALL my brothers and sisters to see that they are the embodiments of Love and that fear is the illusion of this time-space reality!! I want ALL my brothers and sisters to KNOW without a question of a doubt that we are all connected on a Soul level!! Your soul, my soul, the puppy’s soul, are all One!! I want ALL my brothers and sisters to recognize that as we hurt one another, mentally, emotionally, physically, we ARE hurting ourselves! I want ALL my beauty-full brothers and sisters to recognize that this body you are in is an illusion…a falsity…and that our True Essence is that of God!!!
I want, for myself, to embody my Divine right, as the Son of God. I want to fully establish my Christ-hood. I want to fully awaken within myself the True knowing that I am God, and that You are God, and that we ALL are God, and we are here to experience all of life! I want to embody my Self consciously so greatly that you all have no choice but to come with me! As my soul expands, your soul expands, and we all are lifted to new heights of awareness and consciousness!! I want to embody the Infinite Light so that it illumines us all and takes us to Infinite understanding.
You see my lovelies, right now in this moment I have an understanding that this beauty-full puppy has come into my life to help me realize that there is only a stream of well-being. There is NO darkness! There is NO evil!! There is no devil!! These are illusions that we have collectively conceived and propagated in this illusory reality! There is only a stream of wellness, of Light, of Truth, and we have the CHOICE to let that stream of Life pour through us, or we can pinch it off! It is our CHOICE whether we embody Love or fear. It is OUR CHOICE!!! Nobody can force us to turn on a dark switch because it does not exist. We do not walk into a room and turn on the dark switch. We can CHOOSE to turn on the Light switch and walk within the illumination it provides, or we can CHOOSE to keep it off. It is OUR CHOICE!!
Not allowing this stream of well-being to course through us causes us to feel fearful! That police officer, chose to act in such a way that embodied fear, to resist the well-being, he held no true inner power as he pulled the trigger of his gun, it was done from fear and a place of isolation, disconnected from Source. Had he embodied Love and allowed the stream of well-being to flow, he would have calmly subdued this puppy, and the puppy would have acted in kind.
You see my friends we have a CHOICE!!! We always have a CHOICE! We have a choice to Love or to fear. We have a choice to let the well-being that is our natural state to flow openly, or we can choose to resist it. The choices we make dictate the experiences we have. We have a choice to consciously and deliberately choose thoughts that are in harmony with Source, the Essence that is You, or we can choose to think thoughts that are not in harmony with Source. You will know that you are in harmony or disharmony with Source by the way you feel…when you feel good you are in harmony with Source, when you feel bad you are in disharmony with Source. It is that simple.
You have a choice to feel grateful for all the blessings in your life and Source will respond with giving you even more things to be grateful for! Or you can focus on what you are not getting and Source will give more things to not feel grateful for. It is all your CHOICE!!! Where you put your thoughts is what will manifest in this reality.
You are a Power-full creator!! You are truly and fully an extension of God!!! You came forth to experience this reality and through the contrast and the ability to focus you knew you would create your reality, the problem is…you forgot who you are! Your body, on an atomic level, is 99.9999999% space. As you realize that the atoms of your body respond to the thoughts you are thinking you can realize that simply by changing your thoughts you can create a whole new body! On an atomic level you don’t exist! You are vibrational beings, experiencing this vibrational reality, come forth to create your reality through the sifting around of contrast and the ability to focus on what it is you desire.
This beauty-full puppy has caused me to remember that my wanting for a girlfriend, or wanting for more money, is inconsequential when it comes to all the things I have to be grateful for! I can CHOOSE to be thankful for an incredible family, a healthy body, healthy food to eat, beauty-full loving puppies, clothes on my back, clean water to drink, an Iphone, a bed to sleep in, and on and on and on, or I can choose to look at what I don’t have. But this puppy gave his life for the Love he felt in his heart for the man whom he loved…and this puppy I am grateful for!! I don’t hate the police officer who shot him, nor do I wish harm upon this officer, because in his own heart he is suffering a battle far more difficult than I could ever press upon him. Instead I wish that this officer finds peace and recognizes he has the ability to HELP and to CHOOSE Love. I am grateful because I know the soul of this puppy is Me and the Love that he is expressing to me brings tears to my eyes and fills my heart. His re-emergence into Non-physical was not in vain, he gave us a gift…
The gift for the ability to remember that we can CHOOSE!!!
What will you choose?
All My Love,
Zach IAM
Spiritual Life Coach | Zach Tavcar 