Always, always, always remain true to your Self!!!
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Sacred Sexuality: Challenges of the Feminine
UncategorizedThe reason why the Feminine will always challenge the Masculine 😉
Destruction of the Ego
UncategorizedWhy would you want to destroy your ego?
Remember You Are Worthy
UncategorizedRemember that you ARE worthy…ALWAYS!!!
How To Deal With Criticism
UncategorizedTips I’ve found on how to effectively deal with criticism 🙂
I AM A COWARD AND A DICK!!!
UncategorizedAs I was eating my dinner this evening and texting a girl who has developed a crush on me, I realized how much of a dick I am. I started to realize how much she was beginning to like me and all these images flooded through my mind…
Images of me finding the most beautiful, or most desired, girl at any of my work places and how I wanted to “capture” her. Images of me flirting ferociously with married women, women with fiance’s, women with boyfriends, single women, it didn’t matter, as long as I saw that they were desired by other men, I was going to show every one around me who was the alpha male. Then a quote flooded into my mind…
“The biggest coward is the man who awakens a woman’s heart with no intention of loving her.” -Bob Marley
Here I am, this “spiritual guy,” this person who is supposed to be about expressing Divinity in every aspect of our lives, living with the Infinite Presence, the Most High One, dwelling within the body Temple, and yet I am still controlled by my ego. Controlled by the need to have what is desired by all other men. The need to demonstrate my dominance not with physical strength or prowess, but with charisma, charm, my ability to pull at the innate wanting of every woman, with no intention other than to assert my own Presence.
I am such a dick!!! Can you believe that with all I preach that I would still act in such a way?! Well, believe it!!!
The innate wanting we all have to be wanted caused me to express in a way that I would never be proud of. Awakening a woman’s heart with no intention of loving her. Using my understanding of the qualities the Divine Feminine seeks to my own advantage for nothing other than to satisfy my own ego. For nothing other than to know that I can have exactly what I want because I can. A complete misuse of knowledge.
So what is my lesson? Well…stop being such a dick! Should I be anyone other than what I know truly resides in my heart? Should I stop being charismatic? Should I stop being charming? Should I stop embodying my Divine Masculine qualities and expressing them the best I know how? Absolutely not! But what I can do is be aware of what my intention is behind each Divine Temple I meet. I can be aware of why I am acting in a certain way with women, and in all encounters in general. What I can do is awaken Love in my sister’s hearts, not in a romantic way, but in a way that allows them to realize their own innate beauty. What I can do is let my sisters know they are always beauty-full, without question, and let them remember their true partner is always themselves.
Am I a dick? Absolutely. Am I a coward based on the words of Bob Marley? Absolutely. But without being able to accept those qualities I possess I would not be able to progress past actions that no longer serve me or my brothers and sisters. To look within is to see the heart of God smiling back at you. If we are too afraid to accept qualities about the personality we have developed, we have restricted our ability to change and witness the Truth of our being. Will I continue to be a dick? I will do my best not to. Will I continue to be a coward? I will do my best not to. But I will always tell you that you are beauty-full, I will always honor the sacredness of your being, and I will always Love you.
All My Love,
Zach
Why You Are Beauty-Full…
UncategorizedIt is very simple as to why you are so gorgeous!!!….
Sacred Sexuality: How To Get Over Your Ex
UncategorizedWe have all had heartbreak. How can we get over it?
IT’S MORE THAN OKAY TO BE GAY!!!
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I just got done watching a few videos from the show “What Would You Do?” with my amazing brothers Nayte and Jacob. We watched videos regarding scenarios of gay actors being ridiculed and berated by other actors, and seeing if unknown patrons would intervene. While I watched these scenarios, I was at times uplifted and other times struck with dismay.
I watched as real people brushed off the fact that they were witnessing human beings being ridiculed because of their preference for a romantic partner. I also watched individuals stand up and demonstrate immense compassion and strength for those being berated. Now this is what I want to say…
If you actually believe that being gay is wrong, then YOU are wrong!!! You are completely inundated and brain-washed by societal beliefs and religious beliefs that are completely distracting you from the beauty of loving ALL beings no matter what! If you truly believe that a man (Jesus), who told you to love thy brother as thy self, instead told you to ridicule those who are gay, then you need to reassess your whole life.
Usually, those you read my posts know me as the compassionate one, and saying how everyone is entitled to their own beliefs, which you are, but this time I refuse to take a chill pill. If you even dare try to quote the old testament telling me that man shall not lay with another man, then scroll over one book and tell me that women who are not virgins before marriage need to be stoned to death on their porch. Don’t you dare tell me that Jesus, a man who realized the innate Divinity within ALL beings, said to just “tolerate” someone for their innate preferences! Don’t you dare tell me that a man who hung out with the theif’s and prostitutes and criminals said to stand by and allow your brother or sister to be condemned for their feelings!
If you actually believe that being gay is wrong, then YOU are wrong!! Our brother Jesus said to love with all thy heart, with all thy might! He did not say to question someone’s worth based on their sexual orientation, he said to LOVE damn it!!! He said to look beyond the eyes, to look beyond the vessel, and to see the depths of your brother’s and sister’s soul!! See them for who they are…GOD…and LOVE them unconditionally!! UNCONDITIONALLY!!! That means without condition!!! No matter what!! It does not mean to tolerate…it means to LOVE!!! To FUCKING LLLLOOOOOVVVVEEEE!!!!
Being gay is MORE than okay!! Being gay is perfect, beauty-full, magnificent, Divine!!! It does not matter what someone is, because who they are will never change! What they are comes in tiny comparison to who they are…the Perfect manifestation of the living Spirit!
Being gay is so fantastic!!! My brother is very gay and I love him so much because he is perfect EXACTLY how he is!!! A book written and re-written by men thousands of years ago does not hold the power over the guidance of your heart! If you really think being gay is wrong, you better
start questioning your thoughts because trust me, I’ve seen what it looks like when you die, and you are going to be very surprised at the ignorance you portrayed because some pasty white men wrote a book a long ass time ago!!
And lastly, we all need to start taking responsibility!! We need to take responsibility for each other! When somebody is being teased, or ridiculed, or abused in any way it is our RESPONSIBILITY as brothers and sisters of the One Living Presence to support each other!! It is our responsibility to make our voices heard so that we may banish the darkness from the hearts of others. We must emanate our Light in every area of our life and especially when we see an injustice occurring!! If you ever see someone being teased or bullied for being who they are, stand your mother fucking ass up and make your voice heard!! Make sure the world knows that you will no longer stand for such injustice of any creature of the Divine, and make sure that your brother or sister knows you love him/her for exactly who they are! Support your soul family!!!
This is the only way we can heal!! Forget what you’ve been told and what others have said to you your whole life! Go within the depths of your heart, seek your wisdom there! And when you feel, truly feel you have found your answer, go out and live your Truth, share your wisdom. Bullying, teasing, judging is not wisdom, it is ignorance! It is the very thing our brother Jesus told us to eliminate from our lives. To eliminate the need for self-righteousness, the need to judge others, and to seek the sacred wisdom within the depths of our soul!
This was not my most eloquent post, was I judging staunch Christians and other religions? You bet your sweet ass I was! Do I want you to take what I’ve written into consideration and practice? You bet your sweet ass I do! Do I want you to realize that your best teacher is the deepest space of your heart, and not some old ass book? You bet your sweet ass I do! The time of ignorance is fading away, it is the old paradigm, and we have now moved into the depths of compassion and love.
With All My Love,
Zach IAM
A WAKE UP CALL TO MY SISTERS….
UncategorizedDo you know why I call you Goddesses? Because that is what each and every one of you who reads this ARE! You are a Divine Extension of the Infinite Mother, but you don’t know that! You refuse to accept your perfection, you somehow think you are less than what you are! You are afraid to accept the fact that Infinite Power lies latent within you waiting for your recognition and acceptance of it’s Presence.
And what does that cause? It causes weakness! It causes craving! It causes attachment!! It causes you to look for others to satisfy the need to feel worthy. It causes you to look for a man that makes you feel special. It makes you crave the presence of another to say nice things, and treat you a certain way, and as soon as he deviates from the pattern of making you special you suffer! “If only he would keep calling me beautiful?” Pouty face. “If only he would kiss me like he used to!” Sad face. “If only he noticed me and would give me his attention.” Frowny face.
You refuse to accept yourself as beauty-full, you refuse to accept that you are complete, you refuse to love yourself completely because you think you need a man to fulfill you that acts a certain way, talks a certain way, walks a certain way, blah blah blah blah blah!
And the kicker is that you accept a man that is not full in his presence! You continually choose men that are lost, that are scared, that are fragile! And because of what the romance movies and books and all the bullshit that the media has told you, you somehow think that you will be the one who will help him, when he doesn’t want to be helped! You think that somehow his unreconition of his Divinity is means for you to jump in and show him the way, when all along he was never ready.
In your misunderstanding of your own Divinity you attract a man with his own lack of recognition. You are now two halves of two wholes. In order to enter into complete union in a romantic relationship you must be 2 wholes of two wholes which can then unite into the Infinite Whole. 
But it all starts within your Self! You can no longer look for your beauty outside of your self, you must look within. You must walk in your Divine Presence and a man in his Presence will match you. Are you okay with settling continually for weak men that do what they want with you and throw you back? Men that say and act a certain way and all the while something seems missing within yourself? Men that refuse to acknowledge your Divinity?
You see sisters, these men have no power over you, and they will never make you feel a certain way. In understanding that your emotions can come in response to a man’s words towards you, you can just as easily tell yourselves that. No man will ever satisfy the hunger for Eternal depths that you seek if he does not even know who he is, and more so, if you refuse to accept who you are. You are all that matters in your reality. Your emotions belong simply to you! Your thoughts belong simply to you! You have control over those thoughts always! It is up to you!
Recognize your Goddess Presence sisters, know who you are, refuse to accept a man that is anything less than in his Divine Presence, and watch your world transform! It is always up to you!
All My Love,
Zach IAM
Spiritual Life Coach | Zach Tavcar 